You're Evolving, And Don't Be Ashamed Of It.

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Do you worry about what others will think if you were to start something new?

Like a YouTube channel, a podcast, a twitter account?

Or have you taken up interests that are actually good for you?

Like reading self-improvement books, working out, learning new skills, wanting to make money or build a business?

Maybe because you’re used to be a pleb, with nothing under your belt, zero achievements, only played video games and jerked off.

And you’ve been a pleb for so long that almost all your friends are literal carbon copies of you, just a bunch of dweebs doing nothing productive.

(This is obviously an extreme example)

You might think people will find you fake.

Because what you’re about to do, the moves you’re about to make to turn your life around doesn’t really reflect the you that your friends and family are familiar with.

I’m gonna tell you right now first.

As soon as you have that thought of wanting to be a better you, you’ve already evolved, and of course people will find you fake.

That doesn’t mean you’re fake, you’re just different than what you were before, and they think you’re fake because the image of you in their minds is no longer matching with the image that you’re presenting.

Let’s put it this way:

And trust me when I say this:

For a lot of us who are creating content, or wanting to be making something out of ourselves in our own terms,

We’re constantly putting in thoughts about our future, it could be

• How to make more money

• How to get more bitches

• How to get more fit

• How to cultivate better habits and get rid of bad ones

It doesn’t matter.

We’ve already been silently evolving for a long time, it’s just that we don’t show it yet to everyone out there.

And some of us, especially I know that I do this, is I for some reason feel ashamed for wanting to better myself.

I was and am afraid of people mocking me and saying things like “look at him try.”

I would hide all my self-help books, I would be too afraid to tell people I want to go to church.

I wouldn’t want to show even my girlfriend that I have this YouTube channel, even though she had been nothing but supportive this whole time.

I want to hide the fact that I’m interested in making money through online means instead of being a doctor from my parents.

There’s a lot of different reasons why I want to live this double life

But it all for some reason came down to either feeling shame, insecurity or lack of confidence.

I didn’t want people to think I’m fake online.

I didn’t want people to say I told you so if I were to fail.

Even though that’s such a ridicules statement, especially if you’re just starting out, of course things will flop.

What do you mean “I told you so, I knew you wouldn’t make it.”

“Well yeah! And??” how do you expect anyone to win all the time from beginning ‘til the end?

People are bitter.

They’ll go out of their way to say “I told you so” during your beginning fumbling phase.

And then suddenly become silent when you’re seeing success.

But they’re just patiently waiting for the next time you’re down to be able to say I told you so again.

Why Am I Telling You All This?

Because I want you to see the monster.

It’s a lot easier to fight this amorphous beast of a feeling that’s holding you back from trying when you know how it looks like.

And all these feelings, they’re only good for holding you back and nothing else.

It’s all fear of rejection, and the hard part is that those fears are all absolutely valid.

But it doesn’t mean you can’t overcome them.

Because guess what?

Even if you have valid excuses, the end result is that you’re not good enough.

And people out there with money to spend that are going to make you rich will only care if you’re good enough.

You can have 10 million sob stories.

But those stories won’t really matter to anyone until you matter.

And to matter is to conquer those fears and make something out of yourself.

Be useful, and give people reasons to pay you money.

Your stories and “excuses” can be turned into fuel.

Same as the drive to prove other people wrong.

Learn how to block out the noise of people who don’t believe in your movement.

You know what you want, and you most likely also know the general steps to actually get to where you want to be.

Only thing left holding you back is your own inaction, and the fear of other people’s judgement.

Are you really going to let some guy or girl, your uncle, or even your mom’s opinion of you to stop you from realizing your full potential?

Not only will you live a miserable life, you’ll also resent the people who you think are mentally holding you back.

What Should We Do Then?

Hide yourself like me if you have to.

Don’t show anyone anything. Why risk it?

Let them discover you once you’re famous enough.

There’s no need to go around and tell everyone your plans.

Most people fail because they tell their plans to the wrong people at the wrong times.

Just hold down your fort, build in silence.

Again, these fears of judgment is absolutely valid, but just because they’re valid doesn’t mean they need to hold you back forever.

And if you were to slip for some reason and have people around you finding out that you’re making better decisions for yourself.

Just take the heat. And know that you never never never need to feel bad for bettering yourself.

Let the crabs around you whine and discourage you.

Just know in your head that they’re crabs.

They want to drag you down and force you to stay in the bottom of the barrel with them.

Hopefully my personal experience and world view has some kind of positive influence over you. If you’re still not sure what’s right for you, don’t hesitate to reach out to me on any of my socials.

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